It was sure quiet around the house, without the boys here… I guess the main reason would be because Josh takes the whole “big brother” thing to a whole new level… He is a Johnson, after all… He likes to tease the girls (mainly Alicia) until she is literally screaming in frustration. (It’s actually quite annoying! *sigh*) Then, when I get after him about it, he always just says, “But I was only teasing!” … Just like his Dad and Grandpa, he doesn’t know when enough is enough. (Joe REALLY doesn’t know when to stop either. *sigh*) … Anyway, without the teasing, the girls didn’t do any screaming… So that was nice!
Now, don’t get me wrong… Josh doesn’t ALWAYS tease Alicia… Sometimes they are the best of friends, and sometimes they are the worst of enemies. And they have been like that since Alicia was tiny… They do play together a lot… They’re relationship is very strange. *lol*
I sure missed the boys when they were gone though. It just didn’t feel right, only having 2 kids at home. I kept telling the girls that I missed them, and Amanda would say, “I miss them more than you do!”
… So it looks like I am not the only one who was glad to see them.

On Thursday we took the girls to the family swim at the pool. The girls had fun, even though the boys weren’t there to play with (Debbie and the twins didn’t come either). We only ended up staying about an hour though, instead of the entire 2 hours… The girls would have liked to stay longer, but Joe started not feeling very well… Plus, a group of 3 Mexican guys and a white guy came in. They had to have been in their mid-30′s, but they acted like a bunch of immature 12 year olds. They were loud and roudy, and with the way they were throwing the balls, I was sure that one of the kids would get hit with a ball… So I was glad to leave… And the girls didn’t complain either, especially since it meant that Mommy would be making dinner all that sooner. *rofl*

On Friday we took the girls to Molalla Bowl, so that we could use up the free passes from kidsbowlfree.com. We told the girls that we would bowl just the two free games, and then we would eat dinner there at the bowling alley, after we bowled. I even told them that IF it was quiet enough there, I would bowl too… So, since it seemed slow, all four of us got shoes and we got 2 lanes. Bumpers for Amanda and me, and a regular lane for Joe and Alicia… Alicia has been wanting to practice without the bumpers up, and she’s getting better! She even got a 59!!! … And yes, I need bumpers. *rofl* … I am THAT BAD!
Unfortunatly, during the first game, the bowling alley started to fill up. So Amanda and I decided to only bowl one game… Meanwhile, Joe and Alicia bowled their two and then moved over to our lane. They put the bumpers down and finished up mine and Amanda’s 2nd game. Joe bowled under my name, and Alicia bowled under Amanda’s.

Then we got dinner… We should have just gone somewhere else… Thankfully, we were first in line… They only had one poor girl back there, working all alone, and she got bombarded! Seems like she spent over 30 minutes (after we sat down), just taking orders, before she got to even start making ours. We had to wait forever for our food, and then when we finally got it, the fries had been overcooked and were a bit more crunchy than I like them… But I did feel sorry for her. She really needed some help back there! (I don’t think they expected it to be that busy, as it’s normally not at that time of day.)
When we got home from the bowling alley, I wanted to make some cookies. We had some birthdays to cover. (We give cookies to family on their birthday) I had Joe stop at Thriftway on the way home, because I knew I needed some baking butter and more chocolate chips. So we got that and headed home. Then Joe went outside to work in the hard, and I went to work on the cookies… Only to discover that I was almost out of brown sugar! Rats! I only had enough for one single, solitary batch of cookies… I have never made just ONE batch of cookies at a time before. It almost didn’t seem worth the effort. *lol* Before I even started I had switched the laundry… I had the cookies made, the dishes washed, and the kitchen clean, all before the dryer stopped. *lol*
Anyway, I was only able to make enough cookies for Jamie Q. Michael’s birthday is this coming Saturday, so I will make his on Thursday… After getting some more brown sugar.

On Saturday we had a family reunion at the farm… I really WAS NOT looking forward to going, mainly because of the dogs. Everyone brings their dogs and lets them run free… And they all seem to want to run STRAIGHT to me. *sigh*… And this time there were 6 of them! … One of them was an extremely hyper 2 year old golden lab. OMWord, was that dog HYPER. Poor Amanda was scared out of her mind, and spent a good portion of her time flying to either mine or Joe’s lap. Finally Jamie Q and her boyfriend put the dog in the back of their pickup, and Amanda was able to get down. She isn’t afraid of the other dogs, because they aren’t as wild.

It was AWESOME to see the boys again. It was sooo nice to give them nice, long hugs.
… Even Amanda threw herself at her brothers for some hugs too, which seemed to amuse both of the boys.
Sounds like they had a really nice time at the farm (they had been there since Wednesday). They got to help out with little chores around the farm, and had a lot of fun with Great-Grandma Toepfer and Uncles Larry and Ronnie… In fact, I think the Toepfers would adopt them, if they could. *lol* Larry, Ronnie, and Grandma Toepfer couldn’t say enough wonderful things about Jared and Josh. Marie (Joe’s Grandma) went on and on about how well we are raising the boys, and how sweet and smart they are. Larry seemed impressed with how much they like to help with the chores, and Ronnie (who loves to tease) got a kick with the teasing back and forth between him and the boys… And, of course, Jared can give as good as he gets, and that tickled Ronnie… I guess one time Jared was looking into Ronnie’s ear, and pretending it could see clear through out the other ear. *lol* … And I guess they were telling the boys that they were going to send them down the outhouse, head first, to take inventory.
Anyway, we are going to make some plans to have the boys spend some more time down there this summer. The Toepfers enjoy it, and the boys enjoy it… And I think it’s good for all of them… Just maybe not for me, since I miss them so much.

There is one depressing thing though… I guess on Thursday Ronnie let the boys ride on one (or two) of the horses, and NO ONE took a picture! *pout*… This is the first time the boys were on a horse, and I MISSED IT, and I don’t have any photos to show for it… I am going to go pout now! *lol*
Other than the dogs, the day was mostly nice… Joe’s Dad was mad at us though, and was grumping at us all day.
… He was mad because we only came for the day, and we didn’t camp… Debbie told us that he told them that it was *insert bad word here* that we had a nice trailer, but didn’t bring it to camp… But you can’t have hookups, and I can’t shower in it there… And I can’t go without a shower. My skin and hair is too oily, and I NEED my morning shower! … So, it was no fun dealing with Jim all day… Because when he gets mad, he can REALLY hold a grudge! (Which is where Joe gets it from *sigh*) … I guess when we got there, Joe went over to say hello, and Jim said something about us being a day late and a dollar short, and he didn’t say it in a nice way either.

We also had one other issue, with Joe and Jim… Joe’s family always does this Bingo thing at all the get-togethers like this. You’re supposed to buy cheap prizes from the dollar store and wrap them up in newspaper. Then the winners of the game get to pick a prize from the pile… I never play, but Joe and the kids enjoy it… Anyway, when it was time, Joe grabbed his chair and went into the shop to play. As he was pulling out some Bingo boards, Jim and Joe have this conversation:
Jim: “Did you bring any prizes?” (in a grumpy tone)
Joe: “Yes, why?”
Jim: “Because you can’t play if you didn’t bring any.”
Joe: “Yes I can, who says?”
Jim: “I did.”
Joe: “Well, then I won’t play.”
Jim: “Fine, be an *insert bad word here* then!”
Then Joe left and refused to play… He was mad, and he’s still mad… And Joe can hold a grudge just as long as Jim can. (Like father, like son. *sigh*) … What is insane is that we DID bring some things, and even if we didn’t, the table was PILED with gifts. Plus, some of the older relatives didn’t bring anything, and Jim didn’t have any trouble with them playing.
I just can’t believe Joe’s dad called his own son such a name!

The weather was really nice (at first), which was quite a shock to the system, after all the rain! (and it was back to raining by the time night fell)… Since it wasn’t raining, and the boys and Alicia were off playing games with their cousins, we took Amanda on a little walk to see the waterfalls that are on the Toepfers’ property (they have something like 380-ish acres). I’ve never been to see the falls before… I have no idea why… Though we only went to the top of the falls. We were told that the trail down was really muddy and slick (because of all the rain), so we didn’t want to chance it… It was a nice walk anyway, and Amanda seemed to enjoy herself. She even picked some flowers for Great Grandma Toepfer.

Luckily, the kids were oblivious to the issues between their Dad and their Grandpa. They all played, and came home with lots of cheap prizes… They got glow sticks, poptarts, a bike lock, some containers, etc. Josh even got a pair of fake glasses with a nose, which is SO FUNNY!. *lol* … He’s all about those, since he is such a goofball!
… And you should have seen the grin on Alicia’s face when she won those poptarts. She does love her food!
Josh sure gave cousin LeRoy (who’s around 24-25 years old) a laugh though. He saw Josh’s shirt (which used to belong to Jacob) that said “Parents for Sale”, but didn’t notice that the dad is free. Anyway, he asked Josh how much he would take for his parents, and Josh says, “Two thousand for my Mom, but my Dad is free.”
… After LeRoy told me, I said to Josh, “So… I’m only worth two grand, huh?” … And then Josh upped it to a couple billion. *rofl*

Our BIL, Bob, brought a pellet gun and some targets with him. He and Kyle were off shooting at the target, and they called Joe over… After a while I got bored sitting there by myself, so I went over to watch them shoot the gun… Bob (our resident drunk) asked me if I wanted to try. I told him that I wouldn’t even know how, and he said that he would show me… So I agreed, which SHOCKED everyone there, including Joe! *rofl* … That had to be the funnest part about trying it out.
… and it sure was harder than it looks! The gun is a bit heavy, and hard to keep steady. I did manage to hit the target (though not on the bullseye), which impressed the guys very much. *lol* … Joe was going on all day about how wonderful his wife was… She cooks, cleans, teaches the kids, and can shoot!

When I was trying out the pellet gun, the boys were in playing Bingo. I guess Ronnie had seen me doing it, and went to tell Jared that I was holding a gun… Jared wouldn’t believe him! *lol* He had to come over and see for himself… While he was there, I told him that he could try too, if he wanted… He LEPT at the chance!… So Joe showed him how to do it, and was giving him some gun safety rules… Anyway, Jared was able to hit the target too, and he even did better than Joe, Kyle, and Bob! *lol* I told Bob that it was probably the hunting game they have on the computer, and Bob agreed. *lol*

Then Jared ran off to get Josh, so he could try too… Bob gave Josh some tips, and then Josh shot it. He hit the target too… Though they did tell the boys that the scope was off, and where to aim at. No one told me, so I was aiming at the middle! I wonder how I would have done, had I known that the scope was off!
Ronnie came over after a while (The Toepfer Boys go hunting all the time, and know there way around guns), and when he heard that the scope was off, he fixed it for Bob. After the scope was fixed, Josh almost hit the target dead center! I asked Bob if I could keep the target (he was going to thrown them all in the fire), so he gave it to me. Later that night (when we were home), Josh kept picking it up and looking at it. After a while I told him that when we got him a cork board for his wall, I would have to put it up for him. He asked me why I wanted to keep it, so I asked him, “Why do you keep looking at it?” … He just grinned at me, and hasn’t asked me again.

Alicia surprised me while we were there… She must be getting over her fear of heights! … When we were watching the target practice, I looked over to see her sitting on the top rail of the fence, which is probably 4 1/2 feet high! There was a time when she wouldn’t even walk down stairs, because she was so afraid, and now she’s climbing on fences! (and I noticed while we were camping that she is going down the high slides now too, which she never used to do)… But MAN, was she jealous that the boys got to ride those horses! She LOVES horses, and she wants to ride one so bad… But Larry and Ronnie never brought them out during the reunion, so Alicia was out of luck. I think she is more than a little bummed about it too. Poor Princess!
And OH MY WORD, is she ever loving the fact that she can now ride her bike! If it weren’t for all the rain, she would probably be on it ALL THE TIME! *lol* She’s been so mad at the rain the last few days.
The assistant manager at the gas station where Joe works part-time got transfered, and now there is someone else doing the scheduling… And when Joe went to work yesterday morning, he realized that he was scheduled longer than he usually is… He’s usually off in time for us to go to church, but not this time.
… So now Joe needs to talk to them about his schedule, so that we won’t miss church next week! … The kids were sure bummed, since we had missed church during Joe’s vacation.

Last night was the kids Some “R” Kids summer bowling league night… We decided to go in an hour early, so they Joe, Alicia, and the boys could bowl their two free games before the league started at 6:00 … OMWord, what a headache… There was a new kid working, and MAN did things get screwed up!
First … We asked for two lanes. We were going to put Alicia on one (with the bumpers) and Joe and the boys on the other… Only for some reason Craig put the two lanes on “league play” and didn’t tell us. That means that you have to switch back and forth between the two lanes. If we had known that, we would have put Joe on the same lane as Alicia… But as it was, half the time Alicia had to wait for all three of them to bowl, and then the lanes would switch and then she could bowl again… But this was after we figured out that they had done it… The lanes had switched and we didn’t know, so Alicia and Joe bowled under wrong names… so we had to delete out those scores and try to remember that they were swtching… THEN, the left lane got “stuck” and it took them forever to get it back on again, while we sat waiting. Once they got the lane back on, it stoppped counting pins, so we would have to manually punch in all the scores on the board… It was a nightmare! … They only ended up being able to play one game before the league started.
I think someone needs to give Craig some more training!!!!!!
We are going to be seeing a lot of the bowling alley… We’ve signed up for 2 other leagues! … Joe is even on his first league now… They are having a 10 week Wednesday night league for $5.00 a week. It’s called the “We need bowlers, and you need a ball” league. *lol* … You bowl all 10 weeks, and at the end of the 10 weeks you get a free bowling ball! Joe wants his own ball, and the boys want a “spare” ball… Spare balls are for when you try to pick up a spare… While their main balls (or “strike balls”) are heavy and are built to “hook” (curve), “spare balls” are meant to be lighter and go straight, to pick up the harder spares.
Then, Molalla Bowl is having the free summer kids’ league again. It’s on Thursdays… So the boys will spend Wednesday night with the twins, and Debbie will take them (and Jacob and Jamie, of course) to the league on Thursdays, as Joe probably won’t be off work in time… This is why the girls aren’t joining. I don’t want them spending the day at the Mewings on Thursday, while Scott and Debbie work. They are too young. It’s best to have them home with me…
Well, I guess I’ve rambled on long enough. (This post is now over 3000 words!) … I need to get some breakfast, do my workout, shower, and start laundry, so I better run!
Catch ya’ll on the flip side!